The Go-To Venue For Kids' Birthday Parties In North County San Diego
Why Choose The Lullabar?
There are lots of reasons to celebrate with us. Here are just a few.
Weekly Time Slots
Saturday & Sundays
3 pm - 5 pm
Monday thru Friday
Enjoy a 25% discount on all weekday parties!
Top Birthday Party Packages
- Everything in the Playtime Party Package
- Pitfire Pizza Catering: Includes 10 Pizzas, 2 Large Pastas, 1 Large Salad, Fresh Baked Bread, and a Tray of Dessert Chocolate cake for 20 Guests. (Add on for 10 more guests for $250, which includes 5 pizzas, 1 large pasta, 1 large salad, fresh baked bread, a chocolate dessert cake, and an additional party plate set)
- 20 Honest Juice Boxes for the Kids
- Colorful Party Set: Includes Paper Plates, Dessert Plates, Napkins, Disposable Forks & Knives, and Cups
- Everything in the Premium Party Planner Package
- Balloon Arch + Backdrop
- Character Appearance by Royal Entertainers, starting at $275 (additional cost applies for specialized characters)
- Charcuterie Board for 18-25 Guests
- We take care of the planning and booking details, so you can relax and enjoy the celebration.
Sweet & Spicy*
- 3-Hour Rental of Our Play Space (Perfect for 20-25 Kids)
- Exclusive Use of the Entire Space (Except Nail Salon)
- Certified Bartender for 3 hours (Bring your own Beverage)
- Mini Tea Sandwhiches for 20-25 Guests, PitFire Pizza for the Kids
- Custom Design Large Backdrop with Cluster of Balloons and Florals
- Kids Table and 10 Kids Chairs
- 10 Krafts Activity Boxes
- Custom Party Set (Paper Plates, Dessert Paper Plates, Napkins, Disposable Forks, Spoons and Cups)
- 10 Kids Favor Boxes
- Full Service Dessert & Snack Buffet on a Shelf
- Medium Cake with Cake Topper
- Character Appearance, courtesy of Royal Entertainers
- We take care of the planning and booking details, so you can relax and enjoy the celebration!
The Lullabar Luxe Package
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Frequently Asked Questions
Booking & Payments
An initial 50% retainer and a signed contract must be secured prior to reserving the time and date of the desired date, offered by Vendor. The remaining balance is due 7 days prior to the event date.
We do require a $150 deep cleaning fee for any events over 60 guests.
Gratuity for staff is not required but always appreciated.
Yes, you will receive a 25% discount on any of our packages if you book on a weekday.
- Weekdays: 3:00 PM - 5:00 PM (Exclusive Private Event)
- Saturday: 10:00 AM - 12:00 PM, 3:00 PM - 5:00 PM (Exclusive Private Events)
- Sunday: 10:00 AM - 12:00 PM, 3:00 PM - 5:00 PM (Exclusive Private Events)
Absolutely! If you'd like to book outside of our standard time slots, just email us at events@thelullabar.com, and we'll be happy to assist you.
Food, Beverages & Vendors
Yes, with our Premium Party Package, it comes with Pitfire Pizza: 10 Pizzas, 2 Large Pastas, 1 Large Salad, Fresh Baked Bread, Chocolate Crazy cake for 20 total guests ($195 per additional 10 guests), juice boxes for the kids, a water station available at the cafe, paper plates, dessert plates, napkins, disposable forks & knives, and cups.
Yes, you may bring your own food and beverages that are not on our current menu, provided it has been pre-approved by us. Any unapproved food or beverages found in the cafe will need to be removed immediately. Please note that we are a peanut-free facility.
Alcohol is not permitted at the event during operating hours. For a buyout after hours, we work with La Costa Wine directly and can offer alcoholic beverages obtained using their caterer’s license. For more information and pricing, please email us at bookings@thelullabar.com.
Yes, with our Premium Party Planner and Ultimate Celebration packages, we provide food, kids' beverages, and utensils.
You can definitely host a coffee tab for your guests. We offer a $50 credit towards the bar tab if you choose this option. During our regular operating hours, you can either provide your guests with wristbands or drink tickets to identify them as part of your party. We will keep track of the orders and provide you with a total to settle at the end of your event. Alternatively, during operating hours, you can opt not to host a tab and have your guests pay for their own beverages.
For after-hours or private events, we offer a complimentary barista and a $50 credit if you choose to host a tab.
Yes, you can bring your own vendors! While we do have a preferred vendor list, we are happy to accommodate your choices. Just make sure to discuss with us for approval prior to the event. For live music or a DJ, please let us know in advance so we can ensure everything is set up for your entertainment needs.
Baristas are only available after hours if you establish an open tab during your event. Without an open tab, no barista service will be provided.
If you prefer not to establish an open tab, there will be no barista service available after hours. You may still use the space for your event but without coffee service.
Venue, Set Up & Staffing
In order to facilitate your event, we allocate a 30-minute time period for both pre-event setup and post-event breakdown, allowing for the smooth operation of your arrangements. If you find it necessary to extend these times, please be aware that a fee of $75 per 30 minutes will be applied for both the play gym and the café areas. For buyouts, additional setup time is $200 per hour.
Yes, you can add either room to your event. Please contact us for more details.
Party host and staff availability may vary depending on the package chosen. Please contact us for more details.
Yes, you can bring your own vendors! While we do have a preferred vendor list, we are happy to accommodate your choices. Just make sure to discuss with us for approval prior to the event.
Yes, we encourage you to tour the venue and explore the areas you're interested in renting before booking. We’d be happy to show you around!
Our venue is suitable for a range of age groups. However, our play space is specifically designed for children aged 8 months to 7 years old.
Yes, $150 for the first hour to add our Studio room and $100 for each additional hour.. For the Full buy out option, our studio room is included.
Yes, we have speakers in both the play space and patio area. We play appropriate kids playlists in the play space and instrumental music in the outdoor café area. If you book a full private buyout, you can request specific genres or playlists, and we will do our best to accommodate your preferences.
Yes, we ask that you clean up after your event by disposing of all trash in our bins and returning the furniture to its original arrangement. For any larger items that don’t fit in the bins, we can direct you to the dumpster location.
We provide a play space attendant to keep the area clean and organized, a front desk assistant to welcome guests and direct them to your party location at The Lullabar, and a barista if requested. If you require additional staff or Childcare services, we can discuss your needs and arrange for extra assistance for an additional fee.
Decorations & Restrictions
No, retail shelves shall not be utilized for decorative purposes, and items displayed on these shelves shall not be moved during the event.
To ensure our play space room is kept in excellent condition, we do not allow painting in the play space.
For safety reasons, the use of open flame items, including but not limited to candles and sternos, is strictly prohibited inside the event space. The Client and their guests must adhere to this policy at all times during and after the event.
Yes, decorations must be child-friendly and safe. Glitter, confetti, sharp objects, open flames, and small items that could be choking hazards are not allowed. All decorations must be pre-approved. The client is responsible for removing all decorations and restoring the venue to its original state. Failure to do so may incur a $250 fee. Any left-behind items may also be disposed of at the Client's expense.
Yes, you can bring your own tables and chairs if you prefer. Please note that we cannot remove our existing furniture from the space. You are welcome to rearrange our furniture as needed, but it must be returned to its original location before the end of your event.
- Play Space: 3 long kids' tables with 20 kids' chairs
- Side Patio: 9-foot long table with 4 benches, 3 round tables with 12 chairs
- Main Patio: 6 round tables with 24 chairs, one set of lounge furniture, and 3 umbrellas
Weather & Other Policies
In the event of inclement weather, such as rain, every effort will be made to accommodate the event indoors within the cafe premises. However, please be advised that our indoor space is limited, and certain areas, such as the high booth seating, will be reserved for regular customers during operating hours. While we will endeavor to provide suitable alternative arrangements, availability of space may be subject to limitations. Please note that no price reduction or refund will be provided due to weather-related circumstances.
The typical duration for a kids' birthday party rental is two hours, with additional setup and teardown time as specified.
Parents are responsible for supervising their own children as they enter and exit the play space during the party. We do not provide childcare services unless specifically booked as such.
In the event that the Client wishes to reschedule the event, the following conditions shall apply: The Client must provide written notice to the Vendor at least 30 days prior to the event date. Rescheduling is subject to the availability. We will make reasonable efforts to accommodate the rescheduled date. The Client may choose a new date within six months of the original date, subject to availability .If we are unable to accommodate the rescheduled date, the Client may forfeit the non-refundable retainer or discuss alternative solutions.