North County’s Favorite Kids’ Birthday Venue
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Why Kids and Adults Love Celebrating Here
• Modern Café Vibe – chic, adult-friendly atmosphere with indoor + outdoor seating
• Instagram-Worthy – clean, elegant design that makes every photo pop
• Dedicated Party Attendant – we handle the details so you can relax
• Exclusive Vendor List – access trusted entertainers, food vendors, and décor partners to make planning easy and your party unforgettable
• Espresso Bar Upgrade – have a barista at your party serving craft lattes and signature drinks like our Chocolate-Covered Strawberry Latte
• Party Perks – colorful party set + complimentary open play passes for each child
• Easy Setup & Breakdown – 30 minutes before and after included
Celebrate in style at a venue where kids have a blast, parents actually relax, and every detail is taken care of!
Pricing & Available Time Slots
Saturdays Only
• You’ll still enjoy private use of the play space for your party.
• Price: $950
• Note: The café remains open to walk-in guests, but Saturdays are typically quiet with very light traffic, so your celebration still feels intimate.
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We just had my daughter's 3rd birthday party here and we could not have been happier!! All the parents complimented us on our choice of venue because it really is just that beautiful and magical. The play space is laid out with natural wood toys and Montessori based play. The coffee shop serves the best and most beautiful lattes. Big shoutout to the baristas and the play space attendant for making sure everything was impeccable at every moment.
I have been here a few times and we hosted our daughters 1st birthday at The Lullabar. She loved it and everyone had a great time. Everything was clean and the decor is beautiful. The play area is so great to let little ones explore and the staff is incredibly kind and helpful. Highly recommend for drinks or a birthday party!
This is our go to place. Whether I need a place to get my daughter's energy out or just for me to get some work done. Their strawberry matcha latte has me in a chokehold. We even rented out the play space for our daughter's birthday and Christine and her team were more than accommodating! Highly highly recommend coming here.
Last weekend we held my daughter's birthday party in the patio space, and it was fantastic! We were able to bring in themed decorations and cater in food (and having their café available for custom coffee and drinks was a nice addition)! My daughter and her friends had a blast in the play area for the first portion of the party and then we continued the festivities in the patio area. It was an amazing day she will always remember. As a Mom, I was thrilled with the staff and service we received throughout the party. The Lullabar is truly a much needed resource for both care givers and children in north county!
Frequently Asked Questions
Booking & Payments
An initial 50% retainer and a signed contract must be secured prior to reserving the time and date of the desired date, offered by Vendor. The remaining balance is due 14 days prior to the event date.
We do require a $150 deep cleaning fee for any events over 60 guests.
Gratuity for staff is not required but always appreciated.
Food, Beverages & Vendors
Alcohol is not permitted at the event during operating hours. For a buyout after hours, we work with La Costa Wine directly and can offer alcoholic beverages obtained using their caterer’s license. For more information and pricing, please email us at bookings@thelullabar.com.
Food is not included, however you are welcome to open a cafe tab with us!
Yes, you can bring your own vendors! While we do have a preferred vendor list, we are happy to accommodate your choices. Just make sure to discuss with us for approval prior to the event. For live music or a DJ, please let us know in advance so we can ensure everything is set up for your entertainment needs.
Baristas are only available after hours if you establish an open tab during your event. Without an open tab, no barista service will be provided.
If you prefer not to establish an open tab, there will be no barista service available after hours. You may still use the space for your event but without coffee service.
Venue, Set Up & Staffing
Yes, you can add either room to your event. Please contact us for more details.
Party host and staff availability may vary depending on the package chosen. Please contact us for more details.
Yes, we encourage you to tour the venue and explore the areas you're interested in renting before booking. We’d be happy to show you around!
Our venue is suitable for a range of age groups. However, our play space is specifically designed for children aged 8 months to 7 years old.
Yes, we have speakers in both the play space and patio area. We play appropriate kids playlists in the play space and instrumental music in the outdoor café area. If you book a full private buyout, you can request specific genres or playlists, and we will do our best to accommodate your preferences.
We provide a play space attendant to keep the area clean and organized, a front desk assistant to welcome guests and direct them to your party location at The Lullabar, and a barista if requested. If you require additional staff or Childcare services, we can discuss your needs and arrange for extra assistance for an additional fee.
Decorations & Restrictions
No, retail shelves shall not be utilized for decorative purposes, and items displayed on these shelves shall not be moved during the event.
To ensure our play space room is kept in excellent condition, we do not allow painting in the play space.
For safety reasons, the use of open flame items, including but not limited to candles and sternos, is strictly prohibited inside the event space. The Client and their guests must adhere to this policy at all times during and after the event.
Yes, decorations must be child-friendly and safe. Glitter, confetti, sharp objects, open flames, and small items that could be choking hazards are not allowed. All decorations must be pre-approved. The client is responsible for removing all decorations and restoring the venue to its original state. Failure to do so may incur a $250 fee. Any left-behind items may also be disposed of at the Client's expense.
Yes, you can bring your own tables and chairs if you prefer. Please note that we cannot remove our existing furniture from the space. You are welcome to rearrange our furniture as needed, but it must be returned to its original location before the end of your event.
- Play Space: 3 long kids' tables with 20 kids' chairs
- Side Patio: 9-foot long table with 4 benches, 3 round tables with 12 chairs
- Main Patio: 6 round tables with 24 chairs, one set of lounge furniture, and 3 umbrellas
Weather & Other Policies
Parents are responsible for supervising their own children as they enter and exit the play space during the party. We do not provide childcare services unless specifically booked as such.
In the event that the Client wishes to reschedule the event, the following conditions shall apply: The Client must provide written notice to the Vendor at least 30 days prior to the event date. Rescheduling is subject to the availability. We will make reasonable efforts to accommodate the rescheduled date. The Client may choose a new date within six months of the original date, subject to availability .If we are unable to accommodate the rescheduled date, the Client may forfeit the non-refundable retainer or discuss alternative solutions.
